everytime I try to get ahold of someone at the cemetery I never can I asked for rules of what can and cannot be put on graves they told me any things nice as long as its clean and neat so i put some things on a friends grave to go back a week latter nd it was gone they moved thing nd also took things i asked for the things back seeing how i spent good money on it nd they said its gone what do u mean ok if u take some thing down do u think u should keep it for maybe the family wants it back oh well i guess all i will say is i would never put any family here my heart was broke when i found my things gone