Be very careful if this person is selected to act as mediator. This mediator is working based on less resistant party during mediation even aligning with practices to intimidate one party by providing personal experiences and belifes without asking intimidating party what is the story. Ask in advance for the agenda of mediation, do not belive in apparent professional intorictory letter that you receive prior to the first session of mediation. Ask in advance what is being charged. Make sure he mediates not provides ambush.